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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi EveryoneI met my Boyfriend this year january and we hit it off, he told me he does not have a girlfriend and i did not believe him, he wanted me to movein with him i wanted to coz every second without him was unbearable,i then moved to another city,sometimes we go for 2 weeks without talking to each other,he sends me sms and emails telling me he loves me and i love him too much, its like i have known him my whole life, i tell him things i have never told anyone in my whole life, and surprisingly i believe him when he says he loves me, i dont know why,he says we should start our own family but i dont think he is really the man i can have a family with,does he really love me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): I don't understand anything your saying. You've got me totally confused, so I'm going try to repeat your story again.
You met your boyfriend. He didn't want a girlfriend. Then he asked you to move in. But you decide to move to another city. He loves you, you love him. He writes to you telling you that he loves you. But now you don't hear from him as often. He speaks to you every two weeks. He wants to marry you and have children. But you don't think he's the man for you. You don't want to marry him and have kids. But you love him very much and feel that you've known him for ever.
Maybe it's a communication problem, because I still don't understand your problem.
Do you love your boyfriend? Do you think he loves you? Do you want to marry him and be with him? Dose he want to marry you? Do you both want children?
What do you want out of life? When you find that out, please update us on your situation.
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