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Should I try talking to my best friend, or wait for her to contact me?

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Question - (15 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *appybunny_xoxo writes:

[Moderator's note, names have been changed to protect privacy.]

I'll try my best to describe the situation that I am in. Well see my best friend Alexa has a a cousin and her name is Mara and they don't like each other. I talk to both of them they are both good friends. Everyday after school Mara and I hang out..On Monday we decided to go to a coffee shop so we went and I noticed that Alexa was there with her boyfriend. I knew it was going to be uncomfortable. So Mara and I both enter the coffee shop and as soon as Alexa saw that I was with her cousin she quickly turned away..I wanted to say hi but every time that I am with her cousin and I say hi to her she never says anything back to me so I kept my mouth shut...So the next day was pretty weird Alexa and I didn't talk at all..Before I went to sleep I sent her a text message saying "good night" she replied..Well the next day she waves her hand to me and I smiled at her...We didn't talk to each other..During lunch I went to go get something from my car and I saw May who is really close with Alexa and I said " HI May" she heard me but she just walked away from me..I don't know what is going on exactly...I am sorry if this doesn't make sense...Should I try talking to Alexa or should I wait for her to talk to me????

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A female reader, c0nfus3d United States +, writes (16 May 2008):

if you want to solve anything you have got to make the first move. she may be wondering the same thing, whether or not to confront you. and if you dont, you may be losing a good friend.

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