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writes:I'm 16 and I have never had a girlfriend, kissed or even held hands. I’m overweight (visibly) and generally painfully shy. I’ve just started considering a plan that can get my shyness to girls to disappear always have trouble talking to them or looking them in the eyes, and I'm pretty sure it has to do with the genetically hardwired fear of rejection. Here’s my plan:1.Go to a mall on the other side of town.2.Aproach a girl.3.Say: "Hey I'm I have a fear of rejection and I want to get over it can you brutally reject me?"(She'll most likely be shocked)4.Take the rejection with a cool head and say: "Thank you, 36 down, 14 to go". And if she doesn’t want to I can gently provoke her by saying: "Awww c'mon, is that the best you can do?”5.Repeat with 50 girls as a target or more if necessary.This should get me desensitized to rejection and be easy as I am looking for it. Maybe a girl will think it's cute and will want to get to know me, but I'm not getting my hopes up...Any thoughts, is this a good plan?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 Please do update us when you can! I'm impressed by the scientific calculation with which you conceived the plan, and I really hope it goes well.
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reader, 147 +, writes (15 May 2008):
147 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the support, I'll let you know how it goes when I try it which is probably on a weekend or the summer.I'll update when I do!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 May 2008):
I rather like this plan, but I'm afraid that by girl 10 or 15 you'll be asked to leave by the security guards!
You sound like you have a good sense of humor and some good ideas on how to deal with rejection.
How about just treating some girls like you do your male friends? Just talk to them and treat them like they are your buddies? You can practice eye contact too.
We may be a mysterious group, females, but we're still of the same species and like to be treated as friends.
Good luck, and I really want to know how this plan works out for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): awsome plan your good at this although probibly the 3 time you do it a girl will think your cute and ask you out if thats what you want.
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