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writes: Me and my ex are still friends, broken up for a while, he has a girlfriend (His ex) who has flirted with his best friend (As in would drop my ex in a second if his friend asked her out) I'm friends (With benefits) with my ex's ex best friend (the same guy who his girlfriend flirts with.) (My ex and his best friend stopped talking for a short while for reasons not involving me or his girlfriend) And my ex has flirted me on a few occasions, at one point telling me that his feelings have come back for me, but not moving anywhere from that point. I still have really strong feelings for my ex, and I know I've probably already missed my window of opportunity being that his last flirtatious comment was a few months ago. I don't know how to tell him I regret how I treated him in the relationship, and that I still have strong feelings for him even after almost a year. Now that they're best friends again, and I'm always hanging out with his best friend, I'll be seeing him more, and I don't know how to handle that. I miss him so much, but I lack the courage to tell him, any advice would be greatly appreciated. :(
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reader, jezman  +, writes (18 May 2008):
 i couldn't agree more with 'angel of love'
i know that your feelings for him are strong but you say that his last flirty comment was a few months ago?
dont forget that he might be just as confused with his emotions as you are.
if you both love each other then (like angel of love already said) it will fall into place so just relax :)
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reader, angel of love  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 WOW GIRL...you have a tough one on your hands...I know how you feel about the whole loving your ex-bf ordeal...I've been there and done that. The point is that you shouldn't move back. Take a deep breath and take a step forward. He's with the girl now and you need to let him deal with the girl he has now. You don't want to say something and have him blow up in your face because he really cares about this girl. Just give it time and like all the greats say...if it was meant to be it'll happen...
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reader, angel of love +, writes (15 May 2008):
WOW GIRL...you have a tough one on your hands...I know how you feel about the whole loving your ex-bf ordeal...I've been there and done that. The point is that you shouldn't move back. Take a deep breath and take a step forward. He's with the girl now and you need to let him deal with the girl he has now. You don't want to say something and have him blow up in your face because he really cares about this girl. Just give it time and like all the greats say...if it was meant to be it'll happen...
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