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writes:How do you know when your in love with someone?I am 16 and I've liked this guy for ages, about a year at least. He used to like me but we were both shy and weren't sure who should make the first step. He was really nice to me and I couldn't stop thinking about him. He was the first person I has ever felt like this about. But then he start trying to get me to do stuff I didn't want to do for him, like sending him naked pictures and talking dirty to him. I didn't know what to say but I declined. He wasn't happy about this and eventually moved on. He has a new gf but I can't get him out my head. I really think he is the one for me and I'm so upset at the fact he has moved on without us having a chance.Am I in love or should I just move on?
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (15 May 2008):
 Move on.
Not because you don't love him, but because he didn't treat you with the respect you deserve - the respect that any girl or any woman deserves.
Love is complex. There are few people who only ever have one love in their lives. You may love many, but with luck there is just one who you not only love but who is completely right for you in almost every way (which doesn't mean he will be perfect. The perfect man? There ain't no such animal!!).
Find your next love, and take your time. It's a very old saying, but it's quite true that most of us have to kiss a lot of frogs before we find a real prince...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): Does it matter if you love him or not?
The question you really want to know is will he like you if you allow him to take naked pictures of you and talk dirty to him. Sure he'll like you, he'll like you lots. He'll probably like you as much as the person he's with now. If you have sex with him in all the ways he likes, he'll probably like you even more. If you allow him to video you naked he'll like you more and more.
Will he fall in love with you? Will he stay with you? Doubtful. Men don't fall in love with women that they can use and abuse. They usually leave them and put the pictures of her naked body up on the internet for everyone to see. He dosen't seem to be looking at you as a girlfriend he can love and respect, rather he's looking for a budget porno actress so he can start his own little pornography empire. I hope for your sake he's moved on and you missed out on that particular lifetime experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): Love is a simple word, and to younger people, it is more a word used to describe a fantasy. When you have children and all the other responsibilities that your parents have (ask them), love will have a totally different meaning.
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