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writes:I say what my repliers are saying. But my boyfriend's team mate, has not mentioned anything about sex or anything. He is lovely, charming and absolutely beautiful. I have been drifting apart from my boyfriend for ages, to be honest I can't stand kissing him anymore. The only problem is, I don't want to hurt him. I don't know whether to give this new person a chance or just stick it out with my boyfriend and hope for the best??
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): I know that your drifting apart from you boyfriend, but don't you think he deserves better than someone who hates kissing him and is looking around for someone else to be with.
He's not a toy for you keep in reserve just in case your new one breaks. If you don't have feelings for him and are not willing to put in the work it takes to make your relationship work, then leave him. Don't wait until you get someone new, just explain your feelings have changed, give him a chance to find someone that loves him as much as he deserves to be loved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): You cant stand kissing your bf. Well dont you think it is about time you did the decent think and stopped messing him about and finish it with him. Please dont hurt him any more. Let him go and then he can find someone who really cares for him, because you clearly do not, especially if you already have someone else lined up to take his place. Tell him tomorrow that you are finished and dont go out with the other bloke behind his back.
take care
xx
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