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writes:I already posted a question at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fine-except-im-scared-to-ask-out-girls.html, thanks for the advice, however, it didn't quite come out the way I intended.The actual problem is that I have an inability to trust women. I asked a girl out once, she seemed OK, she had said she was definitely single, and we agreed to a date, but I had to cancel it due to another event on the same day.I told a friend of mine (a very good one) the next day about this girl and he had told me that she was lying to me, and that she had a boyfriend already that she'd been with for 2 years, and that I'd been conned.Thank you for all your advice on the original question. However, apart from speed dating nights, where else would I meet girls in situations that I know for definite that they are single??Thanks, AP
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (12 May 2008):
 Don't worry too much about it. Even if she had a boyfriend she was still single! Maybe she was looking. Perhaps she was going to tell you during the date that she's got a boyfriend. Perhaps she just thought it might be nice to go out with you.
Don't take this dating thing too seriously. Going out on a date is a way to get to know a person. It's a way to find out what kind of people are out there, and what they want from a date. Just treat it as a way to make new friends and learn a little about life. If there's a spark, you'll get a second date. If there isn't, you'll at least have met a new person, something which is never wasted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): myspace lol!! really you meet lots and you find out f they single or not from their friend comments , etc.. trust me :)
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