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How do you break up with a guy when you're just not sure why you want to do it?

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Question - (11 May 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2008)
A age 30-35, * writes:

I really liked his guy and then when i started to date him I stopped he he done nothing wrong but I don't like him anymore and I have no clue why but I am going to break up with him cause I dont like him anymore how do I do it (break up with him) what do i say and how

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008):

I'm having the same problem.. i'm planning on saying something along the lines of..

"things just aren't working out the way i expected and i feel like i need my space. its just not there for me anymore.. i think we'd be better off if we saw other people." yay.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I broke up with him thank you everybody for your help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

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I have been thinking about all of ur guys advice it kinda helped but I have to give him a reason and idont like u anymore knda stinks help

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A male reader, Dr. John United States +, writes (11 May 2008):

Dr. John agony auntThe whole idea of dating and going with someone is to find out if the two of you are compatible. If you are not, then it is time to move on and find someone else. This is aparently the case with you.

Just tell him you had high hopes for the two of you but it just did not happen. Doc

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008):

Just be blunt with him, tell him you realize your not mature enough for a relationship, and it would be better for the two of you to move on from having a relationship.

If you flip flop in your feelings, your going to have problems in the future, so I suggest you connect with your inner self. It isn't easy, but you must, otherwise, you may find yourself the wrong guy and he will physically hurt you.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (11 May 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntI think that you should just be honest and tell him that this isn't working for you anymore. Don't keep his hopes up or tell him that you can be friends - that is just a cruel hoax. Some good lines are as follows - "I'm not interested in continuing this, it's just not working for me. I thought I had feelings for you, but I don't think there is enough here for me to go forward. As far as I am concerned, there isn't enough for us to continue this. I just don't feel enough for you to continue this relationship." I know that it's not easy to break it off, but it's better to make a clean break and not keep his hopes up.

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