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writes:I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin. Without getting into too much history, I've had one boyfriend. We're not together anymore and the furthest physically we ever went was kissing. I'm a fairly sexual person, having read romance novels for most of my life and having access to the internet. Now I'm trying to date and gain more experience. When should I lose my virginity? There's a nice guy in the picture whom I'm not attracted to, but he's definitely expressed interest in me physically. At this point, I want to get it over with, instead of having it hang over my head stigmatizing me. Thoughts?
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (11 May 2008):
 No. You should have sex when you are in love, not just to lose your virginity cause some attractive guy wants you physically. Chances are a lot guys would have sex with you but why would you want that? It isn't something to just get over with, especially your first time. I'm not sure how you are but I would regret it. There should be love and comfort with this other person. Being comfortable enough with him to discuss if he may have diseases or about his previous partners. Your first time is a big deal. What if you become attached to this guy and he has no interest in a relationship? You can date and gain experience but wait until you are ready to have sex. If you feel you are ready then by all means do so, but not to just get it over with. And I hope the guy would atleast be special to you and not just a random attractive one. Good luck.
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