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My long-term boyfriend's condoms have mysteriously disappeared. Am I over analysing?

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Question - (11 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2008)
A female , anonymous writes:

i thought i remembered a condom or two left in the condom drawer of my boyfriend's(3 years with him) aparment and also possibly opened wrappers from us there (just being lazy about throwing out the wrapper)...i actually don't 100% remember but i don't remember it being so empty..we were shopping at a store and he bought a new box while we were together..i went to put them away this morning and that is when i saw the drawer being empty of it except my v*brator.

It made me think twice about it and question if maybe he slept with someone..wouldn't he have tried to cover that up if he did...i.e. put them back what was missing if that was the case?...also he had to have known we were out and we hadn't looked in that drawer all weekend but he knew while we were at the store we needed more.

i hate that i can't completely remember but that was my first thought when i opened the drawer.

Am i overanalyzing?

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (11 May 2008):

eddie agony auntI've never heard of a guy masturbating with a condom. Also, how would you know if he looked in the drawer.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008):

i don't think he would do that with one on

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008):

I don't know how frank you two are with eachother but as you don't live together, it's reasonable to assume you don't see eachother every day. My point - maybe he feels the need to masturbate and just maybe, he likes to do it while using a condom. As I said at first, if you can discuss this without him being embarrassed, this might just be the answer!

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