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writes:ok this is the thing, my ex broke-up with me because he wanted to help a friend and let her stay with him and I freaked. I said if some girl was going to stay with him i was gone! so he broke up with me and lied about it for a month. after i found out, he said he didnt want to lose me and he knew it would hurt me. he said i still love you with all my heart and want to be with you. after 2 years.Then I got harassing emails and phone calls from her. He didnt beleive me so I had the police trace the calls and it came back to her #, now i cant get a copy of the calls unless i press charges. And I dont want to do that, but he doesnt believe me, ive never lied to him and hes only known her 3 months and ive been with him 2 years. What do I do?
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reader, rcn +, writes (12 May 2008):
 I'd stay away from the bf. If he's not going to believe you, how can you expect him to be there for you in times you may really need him. He's full of it. I'd wonder how much of a relationship he's been having with this other girl.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (11 May 2008):
 The question is why is he choosing this girl over you? He has known her 3 months and is letting her needs come before yours? And believing her over you? Not sure about this one. I couldn't handle that at all. Why not just send the emails to him? And show him where she called in your call history on your cell phone? I would lay down the law. If he is not going to trust his girlfriend of 2 years I don't know what kind of relationship you 2 have. It would deeply upset me if my boyfriend didn't trust me. Let him know it hurts you. Good luck.
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