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writes: I need some serious help!!!Ok, there is this guy I talk to. We're friends...sort of. He's married and his wife is pregnant. She's in another country. I met him through another friend. And we kind of started talking. I like him, but I know its wrong. And he's talking to one of my friends and he tells her he loves her. I like him and I know I shouldn't...I don't know what to do. And I think he may like me...Help please!!!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for your answers. Yes, I have thought about all of that of what you guys said. I wouldn't want my husband to do that to me while I was pregnant. Its really horrible that he does that. I don't talk to him anymore. And I now have a boyfriend who I love very much. Thank you guys so much, I really appreciate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): What do you need help with? The guy is obviously a player to have a pregnant wife, tell you're friend he loves her and do something to make you think he likes you. Have some pride for yourself and respect for his wife and stay the hell away from him. Would you want some girl in another country going after your husband? No. You wouldn't. And think about this: even if he did leave his wife for you how would you know that he wouldn't turn around and do the same thing to you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): Been there got the t-shirt. Men with little ones on the way can start to feel left out and this is the vulnerable stage. Be aware that a man that puts flirting before his partner and unborn child is not the kind of man you really want to be associated with. Think about it. Think about how you are going to feel with a baby inside you and your partner doing what he is. Come on.... you know its wrong and I'm sorry but we are never going to say "go right ahead".
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): Hi Hunny
This is strange the guy is married with a child on the way, Tells your friend he loves her, You like him and thinks he likes you! This guy wants everything and by the looks of it he is pretty clever at getting it. The way to veiw this is to think one day when you are married and maybe having a baby and its your husband thats doing this behind your back, You should then find your answer love. He cant be trusted which ever way you look at it so is it worth your precious time thinking about this person. TAKE CARE HUNNY WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): So he's talking to you, and telling you friend that he loves her at the same time as being married with a child on the way?? he sounds like a rat to me! stay away! he clearly has no regard for his wife, what makes you think he wont treat you the same way?
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