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I want to do something romantic, not sexy. Ideas please.

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Question - (11 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *attie90 writes:

hi everyone ok so what should i do! i want 2 do something romantic and sexy on monday nite 4 my bf and i was thinking make a couple snacks lay a blanket down on the ground and look up at the stars talk cuddle. but i was thinking theres got 2 b something better i can do im thinking i just want 2 do something romantic not sexy now! so if u have ne of u have ideas please let me know! thank you!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008):

i've been trying to think of the "perfect" romantic time for ages but it's all personal i guess. think of something you both appreciate and share it just the two of you.

romance is just showing the person that you care and it helps when yo don't make "things" the central focus. he may like sports cars but is saying heres a enzo really saying you matter to me? natural i don't need anything else but you and our happiness kinda things are the best.

ideas? peaceful places and night time are a good start for a lot of people.

private dancing works too but you gotta be the dancing type doesn't work for everyone.

unless there's a fear of sand you cant go wrong with the sea.

maybe have a few things, music, snacks, blanket or whatever don't force it with low lights velvet pillow crap etc just use the natural sources: night time, let the rest take care of itself.

oh and a massage never goes to waste, doesn't have to be sexy can be sweet.

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