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writes:Hello aunts and uncles you see i have a question.I have this amazing girl! (she's 17 i'm 18) she is always says i love you but not as she used to say it idk maybe it's just me but she would always say to that she will call me but she forgets alot.(we been together for 6 monthes mind you) I see that she been thru some change or maybe she's this way cuz the relationship is calm now i mean it don't usually bother me but i see that to our freinds she acts more lively from time to time.Although she has EVERYTHING! about me like her msn has a pic of me etc and everything but for some reason this keeps bothering me.Also when she would get flirty way with her friends ppl used to tell me that "it's just to make me jealous" until i got used to it she would sometimes do it in public just to see if i get jealous.I need help you guys and thnx for reading =]
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (11 May 2008):
 You may need to confront her about her feelings about you and what her intentions are at this point.
I am sure you know that at your ages it is not uncommon for relationships to come and go.
That is not to say you are that type of person, because in some cases kids grow up to be husband and wife and live happily ever after.
She may be re-thinking her feelings about you and perhaps is unsure how to approach you about it.
If it is going to be bad new for you it is better to get it out now so that you can go on.
However, if it is something else maybe the two of you can work it out together.
I hope things go well for you in any case. Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): I personally don't approve of making people jealous, and anyone doing that to me was dropped like a hot potato.
Your both young, and women at this age are usually not very mature.
Have you spoke to her about this? If not, your making one of the biggest mistakes in relationships: guessing. Talk to her, if she won't answer, then maybe you could tell her that this behavior and unwillingness to be open is not the type of girl you want in a serious relationship.
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