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anonymous
writes:Hi there, Well over xmas period just gone i was having a very rough time at work and stress levels wise,and i started to become paranoid of my gf of 7 years as i noticed minor things around the house and subtle changes in her behaviuor,anyway when confronted with this she denied anything but after a few times she caved in and told me all this horrible stuff such as our most recent child might not have been mine and that she had been having a on-off sexual relationship with an older guy of the net.Now i tried to make it work and push through it but it was like poison and kept eating away at me ,so after a month we were on the verge of breaking up for good and i was going crazy,when one day she stopped and told me had never done any of it and that she made it up to stop me from asking her and went along with it for over a month ,talking on off day in day out trying to resolve this.Now i have had dna tests and the child is mine,and she says she wants to do a lie detector test to prove to me that she didnt do it at all.But i dont know if this will ever be enough,i still love her but what she had told me eats at me everyday still and doesnt seem to be diminishing with time .i am still plagued with the question of did she really do it or was she just lying to me ?.and i can not shake this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Omg!!! lol why would she say something like that..sorry but she kind of stupid you 're not supposed to say something like that and lie about next time she says something like dat leave even if you lied she needs to understand you cant go around lying about series matters like that.. what kind a woman is that sorry i know you love her but shes horrible does she understand everything a person say even if kidding has consequences!!
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