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A bad thing from my past has put me off sex

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Question - (11 May 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2008)
A female Canada age 36-40, *adababe writes:

I find it hard since a certain bad thing happend when I was a bit younger about 13.It made me look at sex differntly not for the good, so Ihave found it hard over the last past couplle of years to enjoy it and to just let my self go and relax.But I just cant seem to have a confadent orgasm,or even to touch myself is kinda?.

I must say it has gotten better though big time

I just would like some help from cupid as to why what how......the rest answers please :))from jade

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A female reader, Jadababe Canada +, writes (13 May 2008):

Jadababe is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Jadababe agony auntI know Iam in the process of getting counciling rite now

sorry about the spelling.. thank you for your talking with me.hugs jade m

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

The website is www.asexuality.org ^_^

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008):

Well, I'm just trying to be a bit open minded, but perhaps you are asexual?

One of my best friends is asexual, as she is revolted by anything to do with sex. She still wants love and companionship..but...Yeah, I think you get the point.

Ironically, the girl I'm talking about is also bisexual, and a polygamist...Because even though she hates sex, she is still attracted to people, and she feels that she wouldn't want to deprive a loved one OF sex, so it would be alright for them to have more than her....

She's a part of an online social network, however I've no idea what it's called. I'll ask her and post it for this question later

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A female reader, Twirly United Kingdom +, writes (11 May 2008):

Twirly agony auntHi There,

Are you able to tell us a little bit more about what happened to you?

If not then I think a therapist would be a good idea Sweetie so you can talk through and deal with whatever it was that happened and move on.

Im happy to hear you say that you're doing better as time goes by but there's obviously still some issues lingering that a therapist could help you overcome.

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