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writes:i think im falling in love but im not sure if he's in love with me but i wanna trust him but im not sure and im not sure if i should loose my virginity tom him Reply to this Question
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reader, Chatterbox  +, writes (12 May 2008):
 Ok my advise if you are the slightest bit unsure and dont know DONT DO IT! Trust me you will regeret it and it is something you can only gie away once...You are only young and chances are things with this guy are not going to last....There is no rule saying you have to sleep with a guy..Been a virgin is a kewl thing..lol And trust me when you find the special guy you will know about it and wont feel the slightes bit unsure..
Be safe and take car
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (11 May 2008):
 I agree with phiatiger you will know when you are ready, sometimes this even involves nearly going through with it but changing your mind before you do it means youre not quite ready. Wait awhile youre still only young and have lots of years of sex ahead of you!!
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reader, Angels1have1wings +, writes (11 May 2008):
 Okay
Firstly if you're not sure then i don't honestly feel you're ready. Love is a good thing to feel when you want to loose your virginity to someone but there is never a rush to have sex. According to your age you're still young so why go into somthing that you clearly seem not ready to do yet? There is never a question of if you are ready you just know you are.
Remember it's you who will have to go through this, not your mates (if you feel that some sort of pressure is coming from them) not him (if he is suggesting sex) it's you and only you can decide what it is you want to do.
Just keep in mind it's never wrong to say no, i was saying no till i was 17.
Good luck hun and I hope you do somthing that is your choice and it is somthing that you feel comfortable with and ready to do xx
p.s i know you don't need me to say it but if it does come to anything... Just make sure he rolls before you rock... protection is always somthing that is needed espically on your first time:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): I would say, if you are not 110% sure for whatever reason, don't do it. I know you probly think you love him....and I dont mean that in a condesending way but it is most likely flattery and lust as most of us later find out.
I would also like to say, when you are ready, you will be sure and if you were you wouldn't be questioning that. So wait, whats the rush x
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reader, fiiiiire +, writes (11 May 2008):
if you're unsure, don't do it. you will regret it, trust.
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