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Which of the four should I choose?

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Question - (11 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so this boy loves me, well says he loves me, and he's also my ex. This other boy says he misses me and stuff, which is another ex, and this other kid always says he loves me but we're really close and we hangout alot, and then there's this other boy that just started talking to me, he seems really cool.

As you can see, i am pretty lovable heheh =] but anyways, which boy should i give a chance to...or another chance?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

None. If you have no particular strong feelings towards any, then just don't bother.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

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thanks guys... its just i don't know.. i have a problem deciding which person i really would like to be with,. i know i should forget my exs but i am friends wiht them and idk.. i'll see what happens

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A female reader, pashanoodle Australia +, writes (12 May 2008):

pashanoodle agony auntMaybe you should think about having some time on your own - to figure out what you want for your future, what qualities you appreciate in a guy etc...

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A female reader, Lily Moll United States +, writes (12 May 2008):

Date them all casually, just be honest with them and let them all know that you're seeing other people, and they are free to see other people as well. Then once you get to them better, you'll be much clearer on which is right for you. You also won't have any regrets or any resentment, because you will know that the one you're with was the right choice.

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A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (11 May 2008):

PeterPan agony auntSimple and straight forward, I would give the new one a shot for a simple reason: you broke up with the others for some reason. I'm guessing that those reasons are still valid in your mind. Why go back to them and (possibly) experience that all over again? At least with the new guy, there's a chance that he's got something better than the other ex's...

Good luck...

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