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I have a huge crush on my older previous mentor, but she thinks it would be a conflict. Help!

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Question - (11 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a 30 year old married women and I am hopelessly in love with a much older married woman (60) who used to me my mentor at work. I recently left my job because I thought it would be a conflict of interest if we ended up getting together. I don't know if she has feelings for me, but I have picked up on hints and I feel strong sexual chemistry. However, she was very upset when I left my job and I have not heard from her since. I don't know how to contact her again.

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A female reader, SpicySweet United States +, writes (11 May 2008):

SpicySweet agony auntWell...this seems like a very deep issue, and I advise you to take it into the hands of a professional. Seek a therapist. They do wonders in helping you discover yourself, prioritizing your life, and finding your true desires, happiness, etc. As valid as the advice many people here can give you, I really don't think you should leave this type of situation in the hands of us. Talk to someone who spent years and years of schooling to help with troubles like this. Good luck and find your true self. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008):

Your married and you have the hots for a woman? Why? It seems you need to look in the mirror and understand what your implying here. If you no longer have interest for the man you promised to be faithful to, then you need to start answering questions as to why your doing, thinking and ready to act upon. You sound like a mixed up child.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008):

ok first of all dont get together. she alt older and wen she die u left with no1. secend u both r married, just stay with that person and 4get bout yer formore mentor

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