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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, i really need advice!! i have very strong feeling for a guy who now im very close friends with but whom i know for less than a year. i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. i know its probably just a crush and itll pass but we get along so well and have such a connection that i cnt stop thinking about him and i miss him so much when hes not around.i know im a terrible person as i have a boyfriend, and funnily enough i dnt think i would leave my other half for this guy as we have history and that would be silly- but i cnt stop thinking about the other guy, and it hurts me to think he has a girlfriend! i am waiting for my feelings to fade, and hope they will, but right now i doubt it. maybe its just an ego boost thing, because i am insecure and i just want him to tell me he likes me even though i would never cheat physically. i am confused and not sure what to do, sometimes i wana send him a message saying i miss him because my feelings are so strong and sometimes i just wana tell him how i feel but it would just be embarrasing myself and him as he has a girl!! maybe there is 1% chance hes into me coz we do flirt n he contacts me a lot but im probably imaging it...anyway i would really appreciate advice,and see if soemone has even been through this? i know its a silly problem but it actually hurts not to be around him!! thank you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice, it wasnt silly, its helpful to know someone went through it, and i know your right that i shouldnt tell him, the only way hed know is if he told me 1st and i know he wouldnt!! i am going to try and forget him, but itll b hard but as u said i dnt think id leave my boyfriend either so theres no point!!thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): oh gosh!! :) i know how you feel because i was in such position before and it sucks i know... what i did was let the guy know even thou i had a boyfriend but one thing i can really tell you that i wouldnt leave my boyfriend for that guy even thou i liked him more than boyfriend but i didn't care... i turned out like i was terrible person how can i tell this guy i like him when i have a boyfriend he asked me to leave my bf and be wid him and surprisingly i refused i couldn't do it to my bf cuz i loved him so much.. anyways forget me don't say anything ignore your feeling iam sorry but it will be the best for you he has gf and you have bf so think about it what if you told him how you feel and hes cool about it yeah w/e but guess what he wudn't leave his grl you will look silly in end its just flirting don't let any1 have less respect for you .. honestly i feel i suck at this rigth noe cuz i really feel its silly advice but its just hard to tell you what it do becuz its complicated you like him and i don't want say forget him becuz i know it will be hard and i don't wanna tell you let him know and everything will turn ugly in end .. all i can say is wait i guess :((( good luck
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