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writes: hey auntsjus wondering.me and my boyfriend hav been broken up for 2 months almost and only recently like 2 weeks ago his been trying to get my attention. It started off by him msgin me pointless things like "do u know where this place is?" then it started to be like"do u like someone else?" "wat are u doin tonite butt?" and stuff.. then wen i said i wasnt comfy talkin anymore coz it was gettin confusin coz he would say he doesnt wana be single anymore n act like we were together wen we were at the same place but i duno. he got heaps upset n said that he was depressed if we werent talkin n that he needs me in his life. so i said ok but i msgd him the nxt day sayini said to him. look if u are just using me as company because ur lonely until u can find someone new i really dont wana talk no more. n he said "no i promise thats not wat im doin i will speak to u bout this wen i get a chance"and he didn't talk to me bout it so wen we had a lil arguement coz one of his friends told me somethin he said which upset me but he said he didn't mean it lyk that so that was jus a misunderstandin but i said stff lyk "wat do u want from me? jus leave me alone" "i don't like uncertainty n thats all i get with u"and he said "is this why u started a fight? coz u wanted me to tlk bout us? look i'm not goin anywhere but if u can't wait for me then thats my fault"den we went the wkend together didn't do anythin but he acted lyk we were together but wud neva call me babe or hun jus called me by my nameee.. n i asked him wat he meant by he needed time, was it time to think bout wat he WANTED or time to be ready to be with me againwat do u think about this? do u think that if he loved me and wanted to be with me truly there wud be no hesitations? although he did jus move into a new house after bein kicked outta home. so i understand that he has alot on his plate. how long do u think i shud permitt myself to wait for?please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): OKayy listen to my advice hopefully you will :)... dont' answer his fone calls don't text baack you noe what no answer the fone just be like what you want// figure out what you want n then let me know take him back if you really love of not then dont answer him ,, find some1 else he obviously is confuse and hes confusing you and me now cuz i dont' know what kind of advice to give you :) just take time i guess and if he really want you he ll come around trust!! :)
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