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anonymous
writes:Hi,I live in india. Six months back my wife came to me and confessed to me that she had sex with my neighbour and very much regretted for that. Also promised that hereafter she won't do like that again. Initially I consoled her and accepted because of her open minded. She could have hidden this to me. Inspite of all this, nowadays, I think abouth the thing happened and started shouting her all time. Please advice me how to forget all this. Still I love her and want to live her alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): Believe me, it's gonna stay with you for a long time. Today is the 1 year anniversary (if you could call it that) of when my ex-GF met a bar-buddy of mine. Within a week or two she ended up having sex with him 6 times. Then when she found out he was a player she begged to come back to me. I took her back, but not a day goes by that I don't think about them together. All of our friends from that bar know what happened.
I ended up avoiding them and the bar completely. I will beat the crap out of him if I see him on the street.
If you want to get past this, you had better think about moving.
Chances are everyone on the street knows he had sex with your wife and relationships with the other neighbours will go downhill. Other wives will not want her around either as they will see her as a potential threat to their own relationships.
Finally, if the neighbour was married. Tell his family. Have your wife confess to his wife. Let him deal with his share of the flak! Maybe he will have to move as well....
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): Well I doubt that most normal men would have trouble forgetting this. Ok she has been honest in her confession but in doing so, has not spared your feelings.
Also, there is the problem of this neighbour. Can you live with the knowledge that he will be forever thinking "I've had that man's wife"?
She is spoiled goods and I for one, would reject her, hurtful though this will be for you.
You will also be forever thinking, "Can I ever really trust her again?"
Move on, my friend, move on.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 May 2008):
 Nobody is perfect and we are only humans.
Nobody will know what tomorrow holds.
We don't know how long we can life or when we die.
Just enjoy what you have and do not think too much.
If she left you tomorrow, will you still think of her past?
Live in the present .
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