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writes:ok ppl i neva did dis b4 but i need your advice on something ok i have been wit this boy for basically 4 months already n we are in love we have a great relationship we neva fight or anything but im so confused of why i he hasnt let me meet his family he has met me mine and they love him his family knows about me but they have neva seen me idk wat to do its not like im ugly or anything cuz im very attractive and gets alot of attention maybe thats why idk could you please just give me advice on how to talk to him about this Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): Hi - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years he has never met my family because I was married for 12 years before and when it ended my family were upset, my sister has had several troubled relationships and my parents want to 'get off the bandwagon' of meeting men that come and go out of their daughters lives. I'm not suggesting your relationship is not worthy but sometimes people have issues with their family and because they care about the relationship and you they want to protect you from the backlash. Remember this is an issue between him and his family - not necessarily you.
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reader, Andrew83  +, writes (11 May 2008):
 Your bf could be wantin you to meet his family when the right time comes or that their are problems with his family.
You wont know till you both sit down and you ask him why havent you met his family yet, also say your ready to meet them and reasure him your ready to aswell.
My guess is that he wants it to be the right time for you to meet them.
Try not to force him tho, will be harder and things just get rushed. Slow down abit, its only been 4 months so give him a little time.
I hope this and other aunts advice helps you :)
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