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36-40,
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writes:There's this website where you upload pictures (photoblog). A guy I used to be friends with, a long time ago, had written a lot about me, 'cos he was obsessed with me back then. I had written stuff to him there also, because he was a friend of mine, so I treated him right 'cos I didn't wanna hurt him. I never flirted though, I was just friendly and affectionate in a friendly way even though he creeped me out sometimes. He just knew how to make girls especially feel guilty. I have a lot of female friends who've had similar issues than those that I've had happen with him too. Nowadays, we don't speak, even though we go to the same school, because of everything that happened back then (nothing romantic, but he was obsessive, and he made me feel guilty so I never set limits, but nothing happened). I just have a hard time shutting off to people, especially when they make me feel guilty about having hurt them. I didn't even mean to hurt him, he liked me and I said I didn't like him back, but he knew that beforehand.My B/F doesn't like any of that, even though it happened a couple of years ago, and always gets upset and jealous (this guy had stalked an ex of his too). And my B/F read the stories in the other guy's blog. So I went to this guy's blog, found a picture that was against the site rules (it contained nudity), reported it, and the Administration closed his account. Now the stories are gone. And he opened a new account saying that "No matter how many coward attacks I receive through this site, I will always have the nostalgic memories of everything that I had in my old account, I'm sure the stories I had there were the reason why some coward dared to attack me!".It was anonymous, but do you think he'll suspect it was me? He knows that a long time ago, I did the same thing to another guy (who also had personal stuff about me online, and who had also uploaded a picture against the community rules... that had also affected my personal life in the present). A lot of people in our school hate him though, because he has stalked girls in our class, and other sort of things (he's very arrogant). Plus he broke the community rules (uploaded a porn pic), so technically I was in the right to report him.I feel kinda guilty and scared that he'll know it was me, did I do something awful?P.S. There were a lot of posts in which he said how much he liked me and wanted me, and everyone could read them, even though they were from a long time ago, they were still online and that bothered me because it started to interfere with my personal life TODAY.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (12 May 2008):
 First off it shouldn't interfere with your personal life. What some loser has written on his page about you should have no affect on you or your boyfriend. It is clear that it was in the past and you have/had no interest in him, end of story. Even if this guy did find out it was you why would you care? Honestly though? Does it matter at all? I don't think you did soemthing awful. People get reported all the time for stuff online. I don't think he could find out it was you but what I don't realize is why you care so much. You aren't the one who put those pictures up, he did. The site didn't allow it so they kicked him off. You merely brought it to their attention, they are the ones who kicked him. Don't feel bad or guilty. This guy seems like a creep from what you say and you should just ignore him altogether. Good luck.
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