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writes:I need help in my relationship, because I keep worrying bout getting hurt again and I know my new girlfriend will never hurt me. I want to let her into my heart and break down my walls but how do I do this, please help before its to late we dont want to lose eachother, PLEASE from christoph47 Reply to this Question
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (11 May 2008):
 Explain it to her. She will tell you she would never hurt you but just say it isn't easy to let your guard down and it will take time. It isn't like you are doing it on purpose most likely, I wanted to break down my walls for my ex but just couldn't bring myself to do it. It happened in time, you can't make it happen. She should be able to wait. That is how you know you are really in love, when you let her in completely and become totally vulnerable. It could hurt if you don't end up together but you won't regret it. I did it and don't regret it at all. You will feel like she actually knew you and you did everything you could, it just wasn't meant to be. By keeping your guard up, if the relationship ended you would wonder that it could've worked out if she just knew you and you let her in. Just be patient as it takes time. Little by little it is coming down. I hope she is understanding. Good luck.
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