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writes:i'm in a situation!i'm inlove with two girls and i don't know what to do.the one girl is in a relationship with someone but she tells me she loves me and i must be patient.the other girl is single!she has a child but that doesn't bother me.she also tells me she loves me.my best friend doesn't like her but i love her(the second girl).we spent a lot of time together(the second girl)she is 20 years of age turning 21 this year.i'm 18 turning 19 this year.please tell me what to do??asap
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): As 'Namatjira' says, the first girl in the relationship is totally out of bounds - you shouldn't be encouraging her away from her boyfriend. To be honest, she's being rather sly on him, why doesn't she just end it with him if she's so unfaithful, and loves you? Maybe you could advise this to her, before things get worse.
From facts, the second girl seems to be the better choice of the two. She's actually single, which makes a hell of a difference honey! But to be totally honest with you, whoever you choose, I don't see either of the relationships lasting too long. If you can't even decide between the two, that means that neither one is particularly special and outstanding. When you meet 'the one', you'll know about it. And from what you've said, neither of these girls are 'the one' for you.
But good luck :]
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reader, Namatjira  +, writes (31 March 2008):
The girl in a relationship is off limits so do not even go there. The only time you could even consider it with her is if she ends that relationship first. Anything else is only asking for grief.
Other than that, the world is your oyster.
Good luck.
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