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writes: I'm young and in love! It's wonderful, and I KNOW I love him .... But I've had realtionships in the past where boys have hurt me (not pysically but emotionally).He says "I love you" everyday, and he always makes me feel special and loved. He's really special to me. My first REAL boyfriend. I've never met him in person (we met through a mutual friend) but we intend to meet soon :) He says he wants this to last forever and I know I do too. But as much as I love him and he says he loves me. I guess I wanna know, does it seem like he's sincere to you? I mean there's no real way to tell how another person feels but from what I've told you does it seem like he REALLY loves me?My other question is, that me and him are always talking about our future .... like the other day I asked him what he saw in his future and his answer was "you". We were saying stuff like - if we had kids together, they would be the most amazing looking kids in the world, and we would get married have the kids and I would stay home and take care of the kids, and he'd go to work and provide for the family. We would have 2 or 3 kids and they would go to school and all this wonderful stuff that I really do want it to happen. He seems to really want all that stuff to happen too. Is it foolish for me to dream and want and wish and believe that this will really happen? I'm 15 and he's 16 and I know we are in love .Please tell me your thoughts and I'm sorry this was so long but I'm pouring my heart out !!!! :)Thanks in advance :] Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008): I think you should make sure that he acts like what he acts like on the internet like in real life. I'm sorry if this is not easy to understand.
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reader, ::it was an honest mistake::  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 To be honest with you, I'd call it LUST.
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reader, Addi  +, writes (2 April 2008):
To be honest with you I wouldn't call what your experiencing love. If you have to ask "Am I in love?" or "Does he really love me" then its not the real thing. I would say your more in deep like or infatuation. You should wait and get to know this guy a bit more. Its one thing to say i love you and another to actually mean it. I know where your coming from and from my experience i hope you will take my advice and just slow things down a bit. It takes more than words to really get to know a person. People have certain mannerisms that don't come through when typing in a chat. In other words the person you think you may have been in love with may turn out to be a total creep or not at all who you have gotten to know. And that can be really disappointing and heart wrenching. Be careful, be safe, and be wise about it.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 You are not too young to be in love. Not at al. Age is just a number. You can do anything at any age. If you love someone, go for it.
It isn't foolish to dream about something. If you believe he is telling the truth, then go for it. You can dream all you want. It may even come true if you wish for it hard enough.
It is hard to say whether this person means it or not. I don't think we have enough information for that yet. But if you believe he does, then he does. It does sound like it to me.
Be careful. Anything can happen on the internet. Just be careful. That's all I'm going to say.
Wishing you the best for the future.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): Okay, first of all sweety not to sound harsh but ARE YOU SERIOUS?! You don't love him you don't even know the guy. Anyone can seem perfect over the phone..anyone can say I love you over the phone or even in person. You're taking this boy to serious. Honestly in my opinion I think that in his eyes he sees you as a joke cz ur falling for all the crap he's telling you. You think you love him and you want it to be real simply becz you've been hurt in the past and you want so badly to be in love that ur falling for anything. Sweety im sure that you're a beautiful girl, and take it from me you should wait you're not ready for love right now. Before you can love some1 else you have to learn to love urself. It will take time but trust me it will be the best decision you ever made. And im only telling you these things bcz I've been through a lot mysewlf and im speaking to u from personal experience...well I hope this helped....xoxoxoxo -------mrs.charles2b
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 This is what we called youthful idealism .
When you are young , you have the luxury of thinking of how
and what you expect from a marriage.
You can dream and fantasize.
When you grow up , you become more practical or a pragmatist
and live in the real world and not the make believe world of
love and dreams.
No harm to dream or plan at your age.
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reader, thebethany  +, writes (31 March 2008):
your never too young to be in love, the question is whether your too young to be in love so that it will work.
i am 19, i have been living with my boyfriend, the love of my life, since we were 17. i know i love him, i know he loves me, but many will say it wont last, because your too young too know true love.
even if that is true, enjoy it while it lasts.
and if you really do love him, dont doubt he loves you if he says he does.
just enjoy the love, and dont worry about your age.
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