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writes:I'm not saying like if romantic, but what would you think if you meet a guy then keep emailing (of course you're the one interested) and he replies right back at you, even though you met shortly, he send you pictures of him, if you tell him you're sick he worries and investigate what's going on, always have nice remarks of you, although he never begins conversation with you whatsoever. I wonder maily cuz of that. Most of the guys I know doesn't reply always or at least in such inmediate way, and he's not shy. He doesn't say no but doesn't say yes, and everytime he replies he write me stuff to keep me wondering. What would you think of a guy like that? And now when he goes on trips due to job he said he'll definitely be in touch with you....Does he really means it or just polite. I mean this is going on for a year and a half now!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 Poster, you sent me a private message and I was able to see your profile and your previous questions. I didn't know whether I should use a public post, but then I thought I should, for the benefit of other people who might see it.
You didn't mention that this man is in the Army, and that he moves from place to place, but he will go back to the United States soon, only he doesn't know where he is going to. I also read about your replies and stuff.
Obviously the man is into you. He doesn't make a move because he is afraid of losing you, and most likely he wonders whether you would be a soldier's wife. The fact that a man in the military responds to your e-mail means a hell of a lot. He finds the time to write to you even when in a mission!
Girl, this is not criticism, but, what are you waiting for?
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (31 March 2008):
I was absolutely sure of my answer until I read the last line.
All the signs you mentioned are those of a man who is absolutely and seriously interested in you. However, you say that "it's been going on for a year and a half now". That made me wonder whether someone would keep such a strong interest for so long without any sign on your part. He would have certainly tried to know whether you love him, too. So, he might be into you, or maybe he used to be into you, but I have the feeling that by now he is only a very good friend.
This post has a very interesting side to it. I have a question for you, which, of course, you may or may not answer. You've been the object of all this attention for all this time. Why have you not made a move, if you're interested? Maybe because you are not into him, really?
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