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writes:I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am kinda nervous being naked around him! I've tried to like get over it but it just wont go away! I really like my boyfriend and he would never force me to do anything I didnt like! I am dying to have sex with him.Why am I so nervous!?! Reply to this Question
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reader, shadowre +, writes (8 April 2008):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the question i guest yer right!! thanx so much :)
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reader, thebethany  +, writes (31 March 2008):
dont worry he will be so horny he wont see any imperfections, hell he wouldnt notice if you were purple
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reader, this_years_love  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 if you don't love him enough to be confident infront of him naked then maybe you need to reconsider taking the big step to sex..you're still young you've got plenty of time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): I'll tell you something my ex told me once- we were talking about being naked and i said i was shy. He said to me, "why are girls shy? We KNOW what you look like, we can guess- we don't think you're going to be a size 6, if youre not, we aren't going to assume you've got huge boobs then be disappointed that you havent when you undress- guys look at girls all the time and have a pretty good idea of what you'd look like naked anyway! so don't worry! we practically already know, we knew when we saw you and we obviously liked it else we wouldnt WANT to get you into bed and be naked with you!"another guy friend of mine told me "girls are beautiful when theyre naked, whatever their shape or size- any naked girl gets a guy hot- don't worry about body issues!" i used to worry but i don't as much now, because you get used to it. my tip is to walk round your room naked, get USED to being naked. i was really shy and wouldnt let my bf see me in the shower even! this year i was skinny dipping on the beach- its a state of mind!As ive got older i've found theyre right- youre young- youre at your hottest and body image IS just a state of mind, be confident because that for most guys is the biggest turn on- if you've got a great bf, well lucky you, and lucky him! enjoy yourself! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): If he loves you then I'm sure you'll look great !!! Stop worrying !!! You'll be fine! :) If he doesn't like it he's not the guy for you. But from what you have said he won't pressure you and that's always good. I'm sure he's nervous too. Everybody is !!calm down... I'm sure he will love it. And you will too once you relax .GOOD LUCK and HAVE FUN!!!;)*~VG~*
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 You're nervous because you're female and it's natural to be nervous about being seen naked, especially by someone you love so much because you're automatically - instinctually afraid of rejectionDo you like the way you look? is that an issue? It could just be the butterfly-jitters where you've never done it before so you're a little freaked out. This is normal but i realise they can drive you crazy :) Just remember how much you care about each other and how much you trust him. If you want to have sex with him so much, then just ease yourself into it. Tell him you're nervous about it too, if he's sensitive and deserves you, he'll be understanding and make you feel better. This is something that you might never get over to be honest! You'll get jitters every now and then about it but once you do it the first time and you see how great his reaction is, you'll feel better. I do suggest talking to him about it though but i'm also pretty sure that once you do it, as long as you're not near -tears freaking out about it and you calm yourself down, you'll feel much better and much closer to your partner. You have to remember as well that guys also have inhibitions about being seen naked by their girlfriends so it's probably likely that he may have felt similar or may still if you've never seen him naked. so it's likely that he really will be understanding. Don't worry so much! worrying will make you feel worse. Just relax and have responsible fun, you'll be okay. Take care
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