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writes:ok here goes I'm a virgin and had anal sex for the first time, now I'm having pregnancy syptoms like stomach pain, back ache, dizzness and nauseousness and I wonder am I pregnant?help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): And you want to look up what virgin means as your intact hymen doesnt make you a virgin.In fact its not uncommon for virgins to have torn hymens but still be virgins. Also..Yes you could get pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): yes it is possible seek more advice from doctor
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reader, TheTacoReaper +, writes (23 June 2009):
You can only get pregnant from anal sex if he ejaculated in your anus and after, it drops out of it while the sperm are alive and touches your anus. Hopefully you showered after and cleaned up good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): i also want to do that as well for my boyfriend and even kept my virgintiy but you ae good to sill not give up.
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reader, shadowre  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 LJ, does that mean if you have anal sex, its still SEX and ur not a virgin!?! i dont think so!! I'am young and not that smart but technically, your hymen has to be broken in order for you not to be a virgin anymore. Iam saying Iam 100% right!! but thats wat i think is right!! correct me if Iam wrong and you better have sufficent prove!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): You can get pregnant from anal honey because the semen can 'escape' and get to your vagina. It's a sneaky little thing semen is. But to be honest, I'm not sure you'd be classed as a virgin any more. I know he didn't break your hymen with his penis (if you class virginity as this), but anal SEX is still sex, hence the SEX part.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): It is possible for sperm to leak out and go into your vagina, sperm live upto 72 hours after ejaculation. also with anal sex there is a great deal of trauma to your anal sphincter and surrounding areas, your uterus is right over your colon so that can get irritated. Anal sex is not advised, you can have anal prolapse with that high level of trauma, that is where your colon falls out of your body and you have to get it surgically put back in. also you can develop what are called fistulas, they are communicating tunnels from one part of the body to the other. for instance your colon can become connected to your uterus or vaginal canal and what will happen is that you will have feces material dripping from your vagina even worse into your uterus and making your infertile. Anal sex also astronomically increases your chances of colon cancer.
Dr.S
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 Sometimes when you wash your anal orifice after you have done your business, you can get bacteria into your vagina and hence get urinary track infections.Either sperm is leaked into your vagina or it gets there through your hands or water while washing .Get a pregnancy test for confirmations.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (31 March 2008):
 YES YES, you very well may be pregnant. Not to say that your chances of pregnancy are through the roof, but it's certainly not impossible. Semen comes back out from whence it came, remember. Some of the semen is bound to leak out of your backside, and remember that those little suckers can swim. It's their mission in life. They're really good at it.
So, if you didn't use protection and you had a fun. wet time, there's always the chance of pregnancy. Please find yourself a more reliable form of birth control and remember - ANAL SEX DOES NOT MAKE YOU AT ANY LESS RISK FOR STD'S. They are around and they WILL happen to you. Please make sure you ALWAYS use protection and be careful with your own body.
Go snag a pregnancy test for yourself... not sure when this sex thing went down, but if it was within the last couple of days, wait a week or so and take a test. Take another one after that to double check.
Good luck, sweetness.
xx India
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (31 March 2008):
 You can't get pregnant from anal sex. Although there could have been a spill in which the seamen leaked down into your vaginal cavity.
The red flag would be your lack of knowledge for sexual activity ect, my suggestion would be: you wait a little while longer before you have vaginal intercourse.
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reader, thebethany  +, writes (31 March 2008):
um did he cum in your bum or on your bum or in a condom, if he came in ur bum then ur fine, on ur bum and maybe your not, in a condom and ur fine.
so basically, u have almost no chance of getting pregnant from anal sex but u have a slight chance if he came near ur vaginal entry.
if u continue to cramp go to your doctors.
if the cramping stops and ur still worried, buy a pregnancy test.
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reader, this_years_love  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 i can't believe how many people are saying it's impossible to get pregnant through anal sex! dr john is the only one on here with any common sense!
many people get pregnant just from hand jobs or oral sex! all it takes is the semen being introduced to the vaginal area!! did you know even virgins can get pregnant? the heymen is pourous (thats how you bleed through it when you get your period) and so if semen is anywhere near your vagina it can go right through and find an egg...sperm can live for 24 hours or so outside of the man's body...all it really takes is one.
yes, it is much less likely you will get pregnant if the man doesn't ejaculate right inside of you but its still VERY VERY possible.
take a pregnancy test and be more careful. always use condoms regardless.
good luck
xx
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (31 March 2008):
 I don't mean to alarm you here but if he happened to spill seaman on or near your vagina it is possible to get pregnant.
Of course it is a lot less likely than if he had penetrated you vaginally but the possibility is still there never the less.
As far as the abdominal pain goes; Normally what causes cramping is gas which inflates the colon and straightens out folds and wrinkles in the colon wall. If you introduced air into your rectum during the sex this could account for the cramping and abdominal pain.
However, if the cramping persists for more than 24 hours it would be advisable to see your doctor. You might also try a warm heating pad on your abdomen which should help to ease the cramps. Doc
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reader, shadowre +, writes (31 March 2008):
there is a difference between your anus and vagina!! having anal sex will not make u pregnant!! have you ever had sex education!?! have you read somewhere that u can get pregnant up the bum!? well u cant anyway. i know ur probly worried but unless you heard that some1 actually got pregnant up the bum, then theres nothing to worry about!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): Wow. Sexually active, but ignorant of the fact you can't get pregnant via anal sex. I hope this scares your legs closed for a good long while.
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reader, tifflili  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 If it was only anal sex... then your good do not worry it is all in your head.
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