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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I've been living a separate life with my husband for 4 years. We've got two flats and we only see each other mostly at weekends. In the end I was fed up that he was refusing to live with me so I divorced him. I am craving for love and company. Right after my divorce I met this man 18 years my senior. We see each other 3 or 4 days a week. A year on with him the excitement has gone and I feel like I want to be on my own rather than with him. Why do I feel like that? Please advise.
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reader, wildman  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 I think it is very hard to find a compatable mate, but when you do you will know it. It sounds like you were in a hurry this time. Don't give up, I'm sure you can find the right one when you least expect it.You don't want to make another mistake by being in a hurry. good luck in your search
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 I think it is normal to feel this way. He just isn't the right man for you. After my divorce I spent several years on my own and it was great. I advanced in my career, started new hobbies, did things I always wanted to do.You can do the same. Start your new life.
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reader, xxxamandaxxx +, writes (31 March 2008):
hi, i think that maybe you just need some excitement or to know that he is going to make a real commitment to you ask him were he thinks the relationship is going and decide from there , but you will feel even worse if you live on your own, so give it a shot bring some romance and excitement in the relationship and if it still doesn't work out remember there is plenty more fish in the sea and i am sure you will be happy in the end good luck!
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