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Is she using me as a rebound - in case her relationship with her current boyfriend doesn't work out?

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Question - (31 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello, I am an 18 year old male who was asked to a prom by a girl who does not go to my school. There was a period where we were quite interested in each other and talked often.

However she stopped speaking with me and ignored my phone calls when she got back together with her on and off boyfriend. At the time I didn't know she stopped talking to me because she had a boyfriend. Occasionally she will text me saying we will hang out soon, but we never do.

After a month of not speaking, out of the blue she asked me to the prom. I can tell that this girl has feelings for me and is using me as a rebound incase her relationship with her current boyfriend doesn't work out.

I'm confused about her intentions of asking me when she has a boyfriend. She seems to be trying to hide from me the fact she has a boyfriend. She doesn't know that I am aware she has a boyfriend.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (31 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntIt is better to love than not to love.

Nobody knows the outcome but you never know unless you try.

Have fun and just enjoy....

Make your life richer...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Yes, I would like to try my luck with her.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (31 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntShe is giving you the chance.

If her first choice does not perform ,

she may dumped him for you.

It will be up to you if you are interested in such an arrangement or not.

If you like her, you should not mind.

Do you want to try your luck?

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