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writes:I need love so bad and can't get any hardly ever. I don't look bad 210 and 5 11, a small gut but oh well. What is a man to do to get some sex back in his life?I have tried a lot of things with my wife, but nothing really changes, everything is just boring. Why do some women get like that, is there no real way back to the good old days? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Looking at your age cap tells me that your wife might be going through the change of life this will stop her from wanting sex for a while its not you or your fault just a natural part of life and you need to be supportive of her if this is the case. has she been to the doctors to find out why she is not interested ? and have you tried to talk to her about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): This article pretty much sums it up:
http://www.asylum.com/2008/03/07/mo-housework-mo-sex-time-to-get-your-broom-on-boys/
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Take her back to the good ole days, take her on the honeymoon you had way back when. If the resort has been blown away in hurricane season, then find another one like it.
Oh, and don't tell her you think she's fat, that's kind of a mood killer for most women. Puts most of us off any kind of sex, really.
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reader, wildman +, writes (31 March 2008):
wildman is verified as being by the original poster of the question She is overweight more than I am. Lifestyles do change for some as they age. I don't really believe the weight is the major factor but thanks for the answers
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): At 210 and 5'11 you are about 50lbs overweight. Stop kidding yourself and get yourself in shape. Trust me you'll be more appealing to your wife and feel better for yourself. Don't blame your wife if she doesn't feel attracted to you right now. I was married to an overweight man who thought I had lost interest in sex. Not true. I had lost interest in sex WITH HIM. I did not have sex with anyone else, but I also never told him that his being fat was the problem. I should have. We are divorced now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): Meet her needs emotionally and she'll meet yours physically.
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