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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy that I like and he likes me too. A couple days ago we exchanged phone numbers. Now he wont even text me. The first day I texted him and he replied. The next day I texted him and he never replied.... But I don't get why he has not called or even texted me.
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reader, caribe +, writes (29 March 2010):
He doesn't reply to your texts because you are showing him you are anxious.
So, DON'T take any more initiatives; DON'T arrange to see him. Don't look for him; you'll seem desperate. I could almost guarantee you that he'll be the one calling you and seeking you if you just relax and go on about your life the way you normally do. That's what I always do... I never call guys; I only return calls, unless is a boyfriend and even then I limit my calls to a minimum.
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reader, Sk8er Boi's Luver +, writes (1 April 2008):
Look I have had this problem so much it is not funny. If they dont call or txt u then just stop txtin them. That is what I did and the day I stop txtin him he called me. But this person I am talkin bout was my ex we r still friends and talk to each other but when he calls he nows all the right things to say and it makes me like him more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:~)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 April 2008):
 There might be a couple of reasons, he might not be interested in you, his phone is broken, or his parents told him he can't text anymore because he's gone over the limit.
Maybe you should just talk with him face-to-face without showing that you're annoyed with him, or maybe the best strategy is to just go on with your friends and your life without thinking about him too much. He might hear that you're getting along fine without him, and maybe that will spark his interest again.
Good luck!
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reader, Cindy303 +, writes (1 April 2008):
 The times have changed so much with the technology. I am only 34, and we just had to exchange numbers on a small piece of paper and hope the other one didnt lose it! I would just back off from the texting and see if he gets in touch with you. If you look like your desperate and you start hounding him with messages he may get a little anxious and just back off. Dont stress about it. There are so many more out there, you are young and if this guy cant give you the respect of a response then he is not worth your time or tears. Best of luck with this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Don't worry about it too much, hun. Why don't you arrange to see him in person again? You could try calling him so you could have a one-on-one conversation.
Just don't get too wound up in a guy you aren't ina relationship with yet. If he has feelings for you, he'll turn around on his own.
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