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Am I in her league, or just stuck in the "friend zone"...and how can I get this girl?

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Question - (31 March 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi there, my question is about this girl who is absoluteley amazing in my mind, and I don't know if I'm in her league, or if I'm stuck in the "friend zone".

I don't know if I'm in her league because she is beautiful, smart and funny, I think I might be in the friend zone because she talked to me about this guy she kind of likes. But whenever we see each other in person, she always smiles at me when in a group she always "hits" me and laughs when i make jokes.

I don't have exceptionally good looks, but i'm told I'm a sweet guy.

So the big question is, can i get this girl?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009):

yes u can. any guy could get any girl no matter how he looks (unless your straight up disgusting) all u gotta do is work your magic

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A male reader, SaraGreen United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

If a girl is really into you, she won't talk about other guys that she has crushes on. She thinks of you as a friend and probably likes the attention you give her. Chances are she knows you have a crush on her and she is leading you on.

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A female reader, meggiej United Kingdom +, writes (31 March 2008):

meggiej agony auntShe may like you, but is hideing it incase you laugh at her because you are friends. So she may like or pretend to like people, she may like you more but doesnt tell you.

I would tell her. or play truth or dare, but it is a set up. So that a dare could be for you to kiss or something or a truth might be for u to say that you like her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008):

Who knows?! And the only way that you'll find out is if you ask her! If she's your friend then you should be able to find the time to talk to her - and tell her how you feel.

The worst thing that can happen is that she'll say 'no' - but she won't be able to say 'yes' to a relationship with you unless you ask her!!

It shouldn't really matter what you look like - if you apppear confident then that will make you look great to those around you. And if you're a sweet guy - well that's a bonus!!!!

Good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008):

Well it can be a possible chance that "this guy" is you!! but you have to give yourself confidence.Try a crack at it after all you won't know till you try.If she thinks your funny and sweet it can be possible that you can knock this guy out of the ladder and you reaching her.But if not then move on in life and find that special someone who will feel the same for you.

I hope that i helped in anyway ^^

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