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writes:The man i am dating works a lot of hours and he usually has little free time. Sometimes when he calls me i am stressed and i talk to him with a little indiference. Although i don't want this and i try to be warm, i think that it influences me that we don't spend a lot of time together. How can i get over this bad feeling and enjoy the good moments with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): Always pick out the best. Try not to be negative. If he is working hard he probably looks forward to seeing and speaking to you so try and keep all your anger and sadness for times when he isnt around. Is there no way that he can spend more time with you and work less. Why does he have to work so much? Keep yourself busy and happy. Try some new hobbies while he is away. Keep all your little bit of new for when he rings and tell him all the good stuff and try to stifle the crap. Work at it and you will get better.
take care
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 Learn to value and appreciate his hardworking nature.
Plan more activities together on his week ends or holidays.
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