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writes:Dear CupidMy name is Joy11 and I'm 26 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. He seldom tells me he loves me and I'm currently expecting his child and we're both very happy. Does he love me or just not good with expressing his feeling sometimes it really bothers me, should I be worried? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ntokzy +, writes (3 April 2008):
Ntokzy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHallo there everybody!!!!
Thanx so much for the replies, everything you said makes sense, i guess i have been feeling emotional.YEAH YEAH my baby does love me and i know.
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 You are getting ready to go through some major hormonal changes, honey. The new baby on the way, you two are in love and do love each other after all this time. You just might not feel as attractive since you're pregnant, but remember HE is having feelings about this change too. Do communicate in a nice, quiet way how you feel--showing lovey-dovey affection along the way. Let him know that if he is having feelings about the new baby and the changes that may occur, that he's not alone. It could help take some of the stress off that isn't being spoken. Don't let it build up in a rage.
Best, Gena
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 I agree with the previous posters, actions speak louder than words. If he has by your side forever, and has always been non-demonstrative, it's probably just his nature. My guy isn't the type to shower me with affection or give me public displays of affection, but that's just the way he is. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love me! We've been together 35 years, raised a family and are still planning our future together! I suspect that the majority of guys are the non-mushy type, 'cause most of the guys that I know personally aren't "romantics". I wouldn't worry if I were you.
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (31 March 2008):
 If he's still with you after eight years, then he must feel something for you. If you're happy together, then be happy together. Don't bring unnecessary things up. Most people don't even hit the one year mark let alone 8 years!
Concentrate on how happy you guys are and the rest will come later.
I have a hard time telling my boyfriend I love him but I still show him how much I love him in my actions. My boyfriend is the same way. Actions speak louder than any words that can be spoken.
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