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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone.Here i go.18 months ago i started to play an online game and a year ago i met a girl there.We were just friends but after a while we started to do everything together.We were spending whole day together.When i logon in the morning she was saying gmorning what do you wanna do today.We were like Married couples you know :).I started to enjoy it after a while.2 months later she was my best friend and i guess i was hers.I had her msn we were talking all the time.Everything were so awesome i never felt like her bf.I think i was afraid of breaking her heart or hurting her in someway.What i knew was I'd do anything to make her happy.She was telling me everything.She was precious to me.2 months ago an old friend of mine started to play that game again.We were doing things together now 3 of us a week passed and she became different.That guy and her they got close.Then i realized that he has her phone number too.I never asked for it so i didnt have it.Well a month age she told that shes with someone.Didnt tell me who it is.First i felt happy for her,she deserves the best but then i got jealous.Yesterday they both said that they wont be online for a week.I feel so bad at the moment cant sleep,cant eat.I am sure they're together.After a year I AM the unwanted guy.After a year i'm realizing that i'm in love with her.Its too late now i guess.I lost everything or maybe not,I mean shes happy now.How can i get over it?Please help me.This is such a drag. Yours in the darkness
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (20 June 2008):
 You just have to accept that there together you didnt make a move on her so neither of them know how you feel just smile and be happy for them, a better girl is just around the corner but next time dont leave it till its to late to tell her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for quick response Fairy Lu.
Few more days and they'll come say me that they're together and happy.Oh my this scares the hell outta me.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (19 June 2008):
Sweetie im sorry you got hurt but i have to be honest as far as im aware you never let her know you felt something towards her maybe she thought you didnt like her that way and when someone else came along she didnt think it would hurt you because as far as she new you were just friends.
You just have to be happy for her and try to move on, online frienships are fine but your life should not revolve around someone online.
Just go out with your friends have some fun and a laugh you will find someone better.
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