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writes:my friend and i were at this party, with my boyfriend( but he wasnt my boyfriend at the time) and we all ended up getting really drunk with this other guy. and we all ended up making out with eachother. my friend had a boyfriend at the time, and i was starting to date the guy we were with and then there was just our friend, who also had a girlfriend. but now the my boyfriend and i are deep in our relationship but everytime i see her now all i can think of is how she made out with my boyfriend. i dont know weather i should get over it and forgive her cuz we were all drunk or stay mad at her? advice please?
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reader, Kadisha  +, writes (19 June 2008):
Look, the real truth is even when we get drunk we still know what is wrong and what is not. It's not appreciated for someone who claims to be a friend to go kissing your bf, he's your's not her's.. And for the fact that you wer not yet in a relationship at that moment you may consider forgiving your friend. But one thing i blieve is that she certainly knew that you guys were about to date.. All i say is use ur feelings here and get the lead from your heart. Afterall, she's your friend! Much luck!
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 Let it go. It was in the past and had no bearing on your relationship then or now. x
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (19 June 2008):
 Hi sweetness,
This is too far in the past, and it seems like at the time of this making out, everyone was okay with it. I just think that friendship is too important to lose over something silly like this. As long as she's not trying to make a move on your man NOW that it's officially official between you, let it go. Staying mad at someone takes too much energy anyways.
Good luck!
xx India
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 You said it yourself - he wasn't your boyfriend at the time. Had you been dating seriously when she made out with him, it might be a different matter, but since you were not, I'd put it down to a drunken snog and leave it at that.
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