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Any help or tips about oral from experience would be very helpful

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Question - (19 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2008)
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Okay, so i have a question asbout oral sex. i am 22 and i have never given it before, and i have had sex with my boyfriend who i love. He has gone down on me and I love it, and I want to return the favour. I have tried to practise on a banana or cucumber before but I feel like my teeth will be rubing into his penis! How are you supposed to take the whole thing in your mouth without biting down on accident or anything? I just dont want to embarass myself or do anything too stupid. He is not pressuring me I just really want to do this for him! Any help or tips from experience would be very helpful. thanks xxxxxxooooooo

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008):

Find a comfortable position.

He should be immaculately clean.

You can begin by kissing and licking the penis; then, holding the shaft in one hand, swirl your tongue gently around the tip.

Next, explore the shaft, running your tongue around the ridge where it meets the head and vibrate it gently against the frenulum.

When you feel ready, take his penis into your mouth; do cover your teeth with your lips; take the whole head into your mouth; with your teeth well apart, move your mouth up and down, allow your partner to guide the rhythm with his hands on your head.

Maintain a steady rhythm and firm pressure.

Don’t bend the penis to far down; this can be painful

The penis should always point upwards.

Gradually increase the speed until he is ready to climax.

Then, if you do not want him to ejaculate in your mouth, withdraw and bring him to orgasm with your hand or switch to intercourse.

Remember, the scrotum is also very sensitive so you can use your tongue and moth the as well.

Hope this is of assistance to you.

Enjoy, it is much nicer then licking an ice-cream!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008):

A banana or cucumber is edible, the penis is not, so don't forget this and bite too hard at a crucial moment..... LOL

You don't have to take it all into your mouth. Best to pretend it's a lollipop rather than a banana and stick to licking and kissing at first, everything else will develop naturally and your partner should tell you how he feels and what he wants you to do next.

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