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writes:My question is this, I am not a virgin but my current Girlfriend is. We are both 20 years old, now we have tried having sex but we stop because it becomes to painful for her. Now I have been with a virgin befor, and I know it hurts and what not but a little KY and going slow got through with a little work. Now with my current GF its a different story. I have only ever had trouble with the actual penetration. But with her I will try to get in, stop because it hurts to much. Then after awhile she can't do it because it hurts to touch. Not just the actual Hymen but more so around it even. It hurts so bad it can't even be touched. And this is after using lube. Now I don't know what that is all about, weather its her thinking about it to much or what. Also I guess her doctor told her she has a narrower viginal canal then normal... Not sure if that has anything to do with it or not... Basicly I am just looking for any tips. Thanks.-Cris
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): Maybe she is just not ready to have sex! Have you talked about this possibility with her? If that is not the case I would assume she would look for alternatives herself.
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