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writes:Hey GuysI need help with something very important to me! I have a horrible mode swings for about half a year now. NO, I AM NOT PREGNANT. I didn't change my birhtcontrol pill ( I have the same one for about 5 yers now)and no big changes happened in my life lately.I have a good job and an awesome boyfriend that I love and that loves me! And its not only "period" time, its nonstop. I can't control it. I am extremely sick happy one day, when I wana hug the world, and the next morning I will kill you for just saying HI to me. And its up and down... I am not happy one week and than one day sad because someones cat just died ... I am up and down .. and sometimes its soo bad, I will start crying in the public, and I have NO IDEA what the heck am I crying for!I will give my BF an additude for going out with his friends for coffee once in a blue moon, because I dont want to be the only one that has to work, and he is going to party without me, .. .than the day after I am happy, because my pants fit me like they use to 10 years ago .. and in 3 hours I will get a phone call .. someone will piss me off and I will be a one huge bitch for the rest of the day and nothing will help it. .. there is some quite stressful things in my life right now ... but they were kinda there before too .. so I dont see them as the main problem.I am really desperate guys! I dont know how to fix this! Is there some kinda pill...or place I can go to (except like a freaking psychologist that will cost me fortune, since I have like no money)! I am just really affraid that with this kinda additude I will send away the one I love the most - my boyfriend! Thanks pals for all your help!
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reader, uraqt9697 +, writes (19 June 2008):
Have you tried researching vitamins and herbal remedies such as St Johns Wort, etc?
Im no psychologist, but it sounds like you may be suffering from some sort of depression. Since your relationship is important to you, I would make sure that you are 100% honest with your boyfriend about your mood swings. Until you see someone like a doctor or they subside, the two of you should come together and figure out some options as far as handiling your relationship is concerned. For example, you get mad when he goes out for coffee. Maybe he could go with you and his friend on your lunch break so that you feel included.
In any case, aside from those options, maybe its time for some good ole soul searching. Take a week off from work, rest, reflect and try and figure out why you feel the way you do.
I wish you luck!
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reader, sadbutliving +, writes (19 June 2008):
My advice is that its sounds like you are dealing with depression. I would defenitly call a health dept n your area, find out if there is any help for low income. I was diagnosed with severe depression when I was 16 but thought taking pills made me seem crazy But now 10 years later I am now on prozac and it does help. Talk to family members because it usually runs in the family. There is help out there for you just try hard to get it.
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