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writes:Okay - There's a guy that I've known throughout this whole year. And we've gotten on really good terms. Both he and I are in serious relationships already. But I've gotten pretty acquainted with him, I've sent him a couple of emails with a bunch of videos and some music because we have the same general preferences. I've burnt him a CD with love songs - because I was familiar with the styles that he liked. He and I would stare at each other in class.And we'd talk on and off.It's strange, I find myself more able to speak with him around other people. When we're alone, I'm so nervous to approach him. I've actually imagined being intimate with him, which isn't good. I concluded the end of the year with a card that stated: "If we were running from a notorious serial killer, and you fell and twisted your ankle...." (Inside) "I would go back for you...(plus more friend stuff)" Somehow, at the last day I couldn't avoid him. He was around all the corners. And when I sat on top of a bleacher, I saw him looking at me from the lower levels through a door. It was strange. Please Help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): Unfortunately I can't provide help, because I don't know what help you wish me to provide. You have given no question that I can answer, you've just told us that you know a guy likes you and you like him too, you have made an approach to him in a very subtle manner to make him aware that you like him.
This man is in a relationship and so are you. You may be willing to leave your boyfriend for him, you maybe even willing to cheat on your boyfriend with him, but he is not. He likes you, so what, it seems he likes his girlfriend better. You asked and by the silence he has answered. This guy may like you but he is not willing to risk his relationship to pursue anything further with you. Sorry, but that's the way it seems to me.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 I see you have two choices here, either you ditch your current boyfriend and go with the new guy or you put more effort into making your current relationship work and distance yourself from the other guy. Is there something lacking in your current relationship that you are finding with the new guy?
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