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writes:me and my older bf (im 16 hes 22) have ben together for nearly a yr and everythings been fantastic but just lately ive started to want to go out more and meet more new ppl and maybe new lads i wann hav fun and go on dates while im young but he wants to settle down soon. How can i tell him that i want to leave him, i love him but i dont want my youth wasted, what can i say to break it gently to him??? please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): tell your boyfriend that you think this relationship is ready to end and its time to see other people
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim not at school actually im 16 neali 17 at college i dont want to hurt his feelings and tehn regret it later
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 Hi,
It won't be easy but he is is incredbily naive to think that a 16 year old girl wants to settle down. He must be living in a fantasy land. You are probably still at school for crying out loud!
Tell him that while you love him to bits you have just met at the wrong time and at 16 you have lots of decisions to ponder about your future and settling down is not one of those options.
Even at 22 most girls don't want to settle down , so I really don't know where this guy is coming from.
good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008):
You could tell that you're very young to be in such a serious relationship and that altough you love him and may want to settle down with him in the future, that you're not ready to do it just yet.
Be truthful, but I think if you mention wanting to date other men he may get hurt.
Good Luck. x
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