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*achel544
writes:My boyfriend keeps telling lies. Firstly I didnt want him going to a lap dancing club with the boys as you always hear about what goes on in the back room.which he lied to me about going and came home 600 pound short. He used to do coke and lie about that to me too. he has stopped doing the coke however still does MDMA.Im not one for hsting drugs but when you lie about it!He is a great guy when he wants to spend time just me and him. What im asking is can a lier change his spots and is it possible to have a long term relationship with one. I feel like I dont trust him in any situation.PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 I'm sorry but this guy is loser.
Who blows that much money on strippers? Seriously, you give them dollar bills where I'm from, for a reason...
He also does drugs?
Oh come on sweetie, this boy is a waste of your time, dump him and move on with your life.
He's obviously not going to stop lying to you and you don't need to put up with that.
Ditch him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): They only help I can offer you is to say this:
MOVE ON! Get away from this guy, your are wasting your time and life.
You will never trust him, and what is the good of a relationship without trust?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): once a liar, always a liar. a good healthy relationship is based on trust and love for each other. if you dont have those then the relationship will never work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): "600 pound short"! There's no way he spent that much on just a drink... Or just a lapdance... And I seriously don't think he would have stuffed that much down one girls knickers just because she was dancing close to him.
And why would he lie about it if it was innocent.
How long have you been going out with him for?
How old are you both?
How will you be able to trust him? You'll never know for sure if he has started telling the truth or not.
Don't you feel as though you deserve better? Don't you think you should be with someone that you know you don't have to question?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): Blowing hundreds on strippers? Drugs? Habitual lying? Why on earth would you want to waste your time with such a loser? I say dump his sorry arse ASAP.
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