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*mmm troubled
writes:my friend is flirting with peoples boyfriend and really, lots of boys but the thing is i dont know if she knows shes flirting or just doing it deliberatly. Shes getting on our nerves and she keeps saying that she doen't like them but she always talks and laugh at them though. what should i do? i don't want an argument im so worried. need help!!!!
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reader, idontgetit12321  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 smellycat016 is right. theres alot of girls like that. and they wont agree that there is anything wrong. she probably sees it as innocent friendship. trust me. i have a feeling even if you talk to her she will keep doing it. but i think she will understand abd back off your guys. and she also might take it offensively. but talk to her. be there for her too, maybe shes going through something that is making her act this way. i would suggest a girls nite. that way she feels included and there are no guys to interfere. and its relaxing.
Good luck tho!!!
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reader, hmmm troubled +, writes (19 June 2008):
hmmm troubled is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the answers really helped alot. but the thing is she wasn't like this until last month where most of had a boyfriend.... do u think she feels left out like smellycat sed? a bit confused(im very slow at these things)
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reader, smellycat016 +, writes (19 June 2008):
 hi,
I've actually been in this situation where i was the girl who was "flirting." your friend most likely is not doing it intentionally, thats probably just how she is. she gets along well with guys. there's A LOT of girls like that out there. I think the best thing to do is talk to her. don't get mad about it though just tell her you feel really strongly about this subject. I wouldn't suggest having all of your other friends talk to her because it'll make her feel like she's getting attacked...
i agree with sexygirl#1, she probably won't agree with you just because that's how her personality is. she won't see anything wrong with it.
its hard to say what to do but i mean she should know how far she can go with it, i'm sure being your friend and all she wouldn't try to stab you in the back.
does she talk to other guys as well?
i would take that into consideration also...
if it IS just your boyfriends, then maybe it is a problem...
good luck with everything though :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): I have a Friend like that.
She Flirts without meaning to, it may be because she Feels leFt out or she sees them as Friends and you see it as Flirting. I know what its like to be accused when you aren't actually meaning to do anything, so iF it continues, speak to her gently and ask her to back oFF a little bit.
Be gentle with her...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): Don't be hard on her,but talk to her privately and tell her
what the problem is.She propably won't agree,but tell her
how you and evry1 feels.And if she doesn't believe you,
then gather everyone up who thinks she is doing this and
talk to her about it.I'm sure she will get the message then.
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reader, babij +, writes (19 June 2008):
you should just pull her out of your group of friend and tell her your feelings but say it nicely dont just go in all guns blazing.just tell her you dont want her to get hurt by the peoples who's boyfriends it is
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