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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm a 26 yr old male and i have been with my fiance for 7yrs and she as 26 as well we have one child together and I have done everything and tried everything but she is not interested in having sex with me what can i do?
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reader, Tuti +, writes (17 July 2009):
I'm in the same situation so maybe I can help. Once a woman has a child with a man she looks at him differently. He is no longer this hot guy she wants to have sex with....he is a dad. Being a parent changes you and not always for the better. All of the sudden all your time is consumed with diapers, washing clothes, cooking, cleaning, many sleepless nights and if your not helping all the more chance you wont get any sex. Sometimes all we need is some time away, a day to ourselves. Treat you woman like a Queen sometimes...Rub her feet, run her a bubble bath with candles, send her on a spa day. You might think is cheesy but hand written letters about how much you love her and appreciate her and memories about the past always help. She will soon realize how much you do and care for her and she will want to do something for you to repay your kindness....with sex!!! It only work if you keep it up...so be patient.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): I agree with "eyeswideopen" not enough info to make a good assesment and give advise.
A little more info please.
I know and understand it is difficult talking about this, but vow, we are only here to try and help, and cannot really commet on such little info.
Hope to hear from you soon.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 June 2008):
 First thing is you don't marry her until you have resolved this issue. You say you have tried everything but what exactly have you tried? Have you talked to her about this? What does she say her reasons are for not wanting sex? How long ago did she have your baby? More info please.
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