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writes:k, well, i hav this boyfrend rite?and im onlii 12 but were pretty serious as ive already met his mom and dad and sister but the thing is, wayyyyy b4 that, i had this crush on a boy thats still in my class but i never thought he liked me, so anywayz, for the first month me and m current BF are gettin along fine, and weve been to the cinemas and drayton manor, but we keep arguing and hes gettin very protective of me, and then he makes jokes about me flirting with people, so we have our arguments pretty much every week, and now i have redeveloped feeling for this boy that i used to like anywayz, but he likes my best friend but he not long told me that it was a waste of time with her so i confessed about my feelings to him, and i really want to be with him, but if i split up from my current BF then he will be devstated and as our gang consists ofme, my crush, me BF, my 2 bezzies and my BF's 2 frends of whom i have grown quite fond of. anyway, if i split up from my BF then its going to cause all of this trouble between the group and i dont want that to happen, i jus want to be with my crush. please help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): Well- i think he's being too clingy and too protective which is never good in a relationship, guys should be like elastic bands, they can feel like being seperated for a while but they ping back eventually. He isn't giving himself any space or you. I think that you should let him down gently, and eventually he will except it. You must be firm and caring all at the same time. XxXxX
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reader, _Confused_96 +, writes (19 June 2008):
_Confused_96 is verified as being by the original poster of the question well, i must say, thankyou very much!!!but theres still one thing, what would happen if mycurren BF cant let go,as i say, hes very protective of me, and i think im becoming an obsesson with him, and i dont htink thats very healthy is it??
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): well if thats what you want, go for it. and try to make it a peaceful break up. that way you are all still friends. im sure he will be hurt, but try to be his friend and then later on hook him up with someone else. but you are young. enjoy life, and do want you want to do.
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 well, im sure you already relize that you cant break up with you boyfriend and emediatly start dateing your crush, that would ruin everything, but if you want to be with your crush then you can break up with your boyfriend and wait a few mounths untill you boyfriend dousnt have as stong of feelings for you, and then you could ask your crush out. but it would be unwise to ask out your crush while you boyfriend still had strong feelings for you.
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reader, Relatefull :). +, writes (19 June 2008):
well..u myt jst have developd theese feelings becoz Of the fact he liked your best mate and it made you realise but Say if u finish your current bf then your crush wont get wiff you wt will you do then?
If you dont want a relationship with your current bf then finish it and leave it a while untill you start another relationship with your crush xx hope it works out chik x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): Dump your boyfriend and see what happens with the other guy. You're too young to be in a relationship where you're fighting all the time! Have FUN, don't stay with someone you always argue with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): wel im lyke dat at skool uve got d sme problem as me ow weird just shag ur crush i wud ditch da uva guy y not i no u dnt want 2 urt im but he wil soon move on surely den get wid ur crush im 12 13 in july 12 do u wanna meet so we can talk mo bi da way i am bi sexual r u? luv flirty (trade mark name)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): I think you should talk it over with him, iF you're mates really love you they will accept it and support your decision to break up with him.
You should say that you still want to be Friends, and you should leave it a while beFore you start going out with this new boy, otherwise he will Feel as iF he has been ditched.
Good Luck...
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