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writes:my boyfriend and i have sex very often. but lately he doesnt seem as though he wants too. he even told me he didnt care if i had sex with someone else. that was really hurtful, and i know he has mood swings and says things out of anger, but could this mean hes not attracted to me anymore, yet he tells me he loves me all the time? should i try or let him go?....i do love him very much tho. Reply to this Question
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reader, Kadisha  +, writes (19 June 2008):
Oh yes, we all need sexual setisfation atleast once in a while:) For all i know, ur partner could be having some sexual problem. He probably realised this and is not willing to tel u or maybe hurt you with it. I think you should try hard girl, talk to him about it. Much love!
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reader, pashanoodle  +, writes (19 June 2008):
 His behaviour sounds a bit odd...has anything changed recently for either of you that may be impacting on your relationship/sexlife? Have you been arguing more? Have you been doing the same things (other than sex) you did together to have fun? Has sex been feeling 'different' for some reason?
What was the context surrounding his comment that he didn;t care if you had sex with other guys?? Why would he say that? Does he acknowledge he isn't as engaged as he should be? Does he think there is a problem too? If so - what does he see as the issue?
You need to address this one way or another...it's going to fester away and cause more problems if you don;t. He needs to explain his ambivilance to you - express his feelings/thoughts and give you the chance to do the same.
Feeling sexy/sexual is pretty important to alot of people - and the loss of that can have far reaching implications for a relationship...so you guys need to talk!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): I think that whether you decide to try it out with him or not you shoulk talk to him about how hurt and confused you're feeling.
Ask him what's wrong and why he's suddenly changed.
Good Luck. x
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