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I'm confused after three years of marriage and still cannot get through to him.

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Question - (19 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2008)
A female South Africa age , anonymous writes:

I have know him for five years. Been married to him for three and I love him lots. He does not show any feelings unless I pull it out of him and that is once in a while. He does not like to talk about us or sex. What do I do. I feel I can help him but put me on the right track. He tells me now and again he loves me and little comments about things but to me that is not enough. Where do I start?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008):

Not enough information has been provided to give you good usefull advice.

You and your husband have different types of communication styles. You should try reading "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" by John Grey for advice on solving communication problems in your relationship.

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2008):

pepper27 agony auntHi Hunny

Can I ask you do you have a good sex life? I no you say he doesnt like talking..He tells you occationally that he loves you but doesnt show any feeling normally, Does he suffer from depression love? A little more info would help as if it is depression all that you have said could ring true and he would need to see someone, But you would really need to speak openly with him first...Has he always been like this? When you first met was there a big difference in his personality hunny? LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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